October 1-November 1, 2008
It seems so difficult to put into words the experiences I’ve had in the past month or so. While I have kept a journal of all my activities, I am afraid my journal’s contents are for purely personal use and reference. I also fear that by putting my feelings and thoughts in writing, I will somehow lessen the “magic” of the experience. Suffice is to say that my experiences during the 10th FK Preparatory Program are those which we can be aptly described as beyond words, where the pictures indeed do not show it all.
However, I know that by sharing my experiences, I will help so many others gain knowledge or even perhaps inspire them to embark on a similar journey and support the campaign for clean air. So, here it is, my first monthly report as a participant in the Clean Air and Blue Skies Asia Project sponsored by FK Norway.
After the Lims, I also met and befriended other people during the Preparatory Course in Bangkok. I will never forget my moments of shared laughter, fears and tears with my co-participants. To this day, Rachana Lem, of Cambodia emails me, to say “I love you, best friend.” I have helped translate class discussions and lessons to her during the Preparatory Course and I feel humbled by her affectionate words of appreciation. My roommate Linh from Vietnam also calls me “best friend.” So many other Participants still keep in touch. I never thought I would be this close to my co-participants. Now that we have parted ways, we are more vocal about our concern and affection for each other. Some like Shankar (from India), who seemed very shy in class, suddenly have the courage to write “I miss all of you” now. I pray that we will see each other again and have the chance to relive our memories of our days in Bangkok…
But the grueling schedule of the Preparatory Course was something I have been used to in the Philippines. The challenge of explaining concepts and things to non-English-speaking individuals was something I could manage. And expressing my thoughts and opinions to a group was something I did for a living. But nothing would have prepared me for the next highlight of this Preparatory Course, the home stay experience.
Unlike my fellow Participants who got a tan out of motorbiking and sightseeing in the Thailand countryside during their home stay, I got a tan out of working as a lemon grass cutter with my foster family.
The open-air garage is where we do our lemongrass work.
The house to the right of the garage is the home of my foster family.
Shortly after I arrived in my foster family’s home around lunch time, they offered me “kayasath,” a sweet delicacy made up of crispy rice, sesame seeds and nuts. I was so hungry that I ate a lot of the kayasath offered to me. The daughter named “Pie” and I ate the kayasath at the balcony while the father and mother worked at the open air garage. After a few minutes the mother and father called their daughter to join them to help with their lemon grass work. Of course, I offered to help—otherwise I would have been the only one in the house not to be working! And so began my career as a lemon grass cutter—I cut the roots of the lemon grass such that only the sweet-smelling part of the stem is exposed! I also helped wash the cut lemon grass and joined the family in selling the same. I got so good at it that the next day, the family gave me “working clothes” so I could continue my work as lemon grass cutter. They seemed to like the work I have done and kept on saying “Di” meaning good. Indeed, there was a time the next day that they (father, mother and daughter) couldn’t keep up with me. They could not sort out enough lemon grass for me to cut—I was too quick for them! After lunch on my second day, the family refused my help already. They wanted me to just enjoy the rest of my home stay. They brought me to a Buddhist Temple where I saw the most number of monks in my entire life.
My home stay was a long way from where I came from. It was a truly humbling experience. But it was an experience rich in life’s lessons which I will always treasure.
Another highlight of the Preparatory Course for me is the Digital Storytelling Presentation. And this is because the activity made me realize how committed I was to the cause of the environment. The topic of our group was environmental sustainability and I managed to provide the background poem for our presentation for under ten minutes! While I had some inspiration from the internet, the lines were mostly from me, from my heart—“will my children ever see the beauty of the sunrise and enjoy the endless summers of my carefree youth?” The pictures in our presentation were also mostly from my own personal pictures. I have the most beautiful pictures of nature from my travels –a testament to my enduring affinity with Mother Earth. Indeed, how can one love something that one does not know? My commitment to the cause of the environment began in my youth; in vacations spent in the white sands of Samar, playing under coconut trees. I love Mother Earth because I have seen it in its most beautiful state and I will do my very best to protect it.
Our success in our poster-making endevour was made sweeter by the fact that so many other Participants helped in finishing the same. Some shared practical tips; others lent their own private items. Many others helped attach our pictures and other items to our poster. In fact, shortly before our Presentation, I brought the kalachuchi or frangiapani flowers I have gathered that morning as final touches to our poster. I was immediately approached by the other Participants so they could help attach the flowers to our poster.I was so touched by that gesture of help from my friends. It was a truly fitting ending to a full 3 weeks of friendship, sharing, and caring.
Working on the poster with my groupmates:
Pong (from Laos) and Kikay (from the Philippines)
and my Vietnamese roommate Linh.
The most popular poster for picture-taking purposes.
Our poster symbolizes our appreciation of nature’s beauty and
treasures and the realization of our responsibility to protect it
in all aspects of our lives [even in a simple task as preparing a poster].
There are hundreds of little other highlights of my experiences during the Preparatory Course—indeed, sometimes, it is just a fleeting moment, an insight from a co-Participant that touched me personally, a beautiful flower in a temple, a smile, an unforgettable dish in our lunch buffet. Due to limits in language and time, I cannot share them all. But I will keep them all in my heart always…I hope that what I have managed to share shall benefit many others...